BDSM 101
Whether you’re curious about power exchange or ready to deepen your knowledge, BDSM 101 is the essential manual from Rev. Jen. This flexibound guide delivers a straightforward, judgment-free tour of the kinky world across 192 pages of lively illustrations and practical advice.
Product Details
| Author | Rev. Jen |
| Illustrator | Brian Peterson |
| Format | Flexibound |
| Pages | 192 |
| Publisher | Simon & Schuster |
What’s Inside BDSM 101
Rev. Jen covers the building blocks of safe, consensual kink with clarity and humor. Inside this illustrated tour you’ll find:
- Negotiation basics and consent frameworks
- Roles, dynamics, and common terminology
- Techniques for sensation play, restraint, and impact
- Aftercare practices and emotional safety
- Playful illustrations that demystify complex ideas
About the Author
Rev. Jen is the irreverent voice behind the memoirs Elf Girl and Live Nude Elf. With BDSM 101, she brings her signature wit and honesty to an introductory guide that strips away shame and invites curious newcomers into the fold.
STAFF PRODUCT REVIEW
Our team cracked open BDSM 101 expecting a dry textbook, but we found an engaging, laugh-out-loud resource that never talks down to the reader. The 192 flexibound pages are packed with Brian Peterson’s playful illustrations that turn potentially intimidating topics into approachable visual lessons. We especially appreciated the straightforward scripts for negotiation and the emphasis on psychological safety—a real standout. Whether you’re solo or sharing with a partner, this guide earns a permanent spot on our recommended reading shelf.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is BDSM 101 suitable for absolute beginners?
Absolutely. The book is designed for people with zero experience and walks through concepts step by step, using plain language and illustrations to build comfort.
Q: Does the book cover safety and consent?
Yes. Consent, negotiation, and risk-aware practices are woven into every chapter, making BDSM 101 a responsible starting point.
Q: What format is the book?
It’s a flexibound edition—a flexible yet durable cover that lies flat when open, perfect for referencing during learning or play.
Q: Are there explicit images?
The book features illustrated diagrams throughout, but they are educational and style-appropriate, not explicit photography.

