The Dame Pom is a soft, flexible vibrator shaped to sit in the palm of your hand. Instead of holding a wand or a bullet, you cup the Pom and press it against the vulva, clitoris or anywhere else, and its body bends to follow your curves.
It is small (3.25 by 2.2 inches), whisper quiet according to Dame, waterproof and couple-friendly, with a 3-year warranty. The Dame Pom draws about 880 US searches a month, and this listing is the Ice colour.
A VIBRATOR THAT FITS YOUR HAND
The rounded shape and flexible silicone are the point: the Pom moulds to the body rather than meeting it with a hard edge. That makes it easy to use with light or firm pressure, and small enough to hold between two bodies during sex.
TWO BUTTONS, FIVE AND FIVE
Dame kept the controls simple. One button turns the Pom on and steps through 5 pattern modes; the other sets one of 5 intensity levels.
DAME POM SPECS
| Shape | Flexible palm vibrator |
|---|---|
| Settings | 5 intensity levels, 5 pattern modes |
| Size | 3.25 × 2.2 × 1.2 in |
| Material | Medical-grade silicone |
| Water | Waterproof |
| Run time | 1 hr at highest settings |
| Charging | 2 hrs, USB-C (use a 5V wall adapter; dry before charging) |
| In the box | Pom, USB-C cable, storage bag, user manual |
| Colour | Ice |
| Warranty | 3 years from Dame |
Specs from Dame’s official Dame Pom page.
POM, ARC, AER OR TOUCH X?
Live prices from our store. Prices updated October 27, 2026.
| Dame Pom | Dame Arc | Dame Aer | We-Vibe Touch X | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Price | $103.00 | $119.00 | $125.00 | $95.99 |
| Type | Flexible palm vibrator | G-spot vibrator | Suction toy | Lay-on vibrator |
| Settings | 5 levels, 5 patterns | 5 levels, 5 patterns | — | 8 levels, 7 patterns |
| Run time | 1 h (highest) | 1.5 h (highest) | — | Up to 2 h |
| Warranty | 3 years | 3 years | — | 2 years |
From Dame’s and We-Vibe’s official pages. A dash means not confirmed.
Choose the Dame Pom for external play with a soft, bendable feel. For internal G-spot play, Dame makes the Arc. The Pom also comes in another colour.
CLEANING AND CHARGING
Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner; Dame lists it as waterproof. Dry it completely before charging, and use a 5V USB wall adapter with the USB-C cable. Keep it in the storage bag between uses.
DAME POM QUESTIONS
How do you hold the Dame Pom?
In your palm. Dame designed it to fit naturally in the hand, and it is soft and flexible, so it bends to press where you want it.
How many settings does it have?
5 intensity levels and 5 pattern modes. One button handles power and patterns, the other sets the intensity.
How long does the battery last?
Dame lists 1 hour at the highest settings, and a full charge takes 2 hours over USB-C.
Is the Dame Pom waterproof?
Yes, Dame lists it as waterproof. Make sure it’s completely dry before you charge it.
What charger should I use?
The USB-C cable in the box with a 5V USB wall adapter, as Dame recommends. Don’t use a higher-output fast charger.
What’s the warranty?
Dame gives the Pom a 3-year warranty.
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