The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Harness Kit Lavender is a complete entry-level package for couples exploring strap-on play. This beginner strap-on kit combines two different-sized silicone dildos with an adjustable harness, so you can start with a petite option and progressively move up. Three standout benefits set it apart:

• Body-safe & Odorless: Both dildos are made from 100% platinum-cured silicone, which is hypoallergenic, non-porous, and free of phthalates. Unlike jelly or PVC kits, this silicone beginner strap-on kit remains completely odorless even after repeated use.
• Adjustable, Machine-Washable Harness: The harness straps extend up to 60 inches, fitting most body types comfortably. After play, just toss it in the washing machine for a hassle-free clean.
• Dual-Size Progression: Included Silk Small (4.5″ length, 1″ diameter) and Silk Medium (5.5″ length, 1.25″ diameter) let you tailor each session. You decide when to size up, making this beginner strap-on kit ideal for building confidence step by step.

Harness Material	Nylon/elastic blend, adjustable buckles
Harness Fit	Up to 60-inch hip circumference
Dildo Material	100% platinum-cured silicone (USP Class VI)
Silk Small Dimensions	4.5″ insertable length, 1″ diameter (3.14″ circumference)
Silk Medium Dimensions	5.5″ insertable length, 1.25″ diameter (3.93″ circumference)
Color	Lavender (soft purple hue)
Warranty	Tantus lifetime limited warranty against manufacturer defects
O-Ring	1.5″ rubber O-ring, compatible with any Tantus dildo with a flared base

• 1 adjustable lavender harness with black straps
• 1 Tantus Silk Small dildo (lavender)
• 1 Tantus Silk Medium dildo (lavender)
• 1 storage pouch
• Quick-start guide

Getting started with your beginner strap-on kit is straightforward:

1. Adjust the harness: step into the leg loops, pull the straps over your hips, and tighten the buckles until snug but comfortable. The front panel should sit flat against your body.
2. Choose a dildo: insert the flared base through the O-ring from the inside. For first-time use, we recommend starting with the smaller Silk Small.
3. Apply lubricant: use a water-based lube on the silicone for smooth, comfortable play (silicone lube is not recommended).

Cleaning: Remove the dildo and wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. The harness can be machine-washed cold on a gentle cycle; air dry. Store the dildos in the included pouch away from other silicone items.

Our team tested the Bend Over Beginner Kit over a two-week period and came away impressed. The harness stayed securely in place during active movement, and the lavender nylon felt soft against the skin. We especially appreciated the dual-size approach—members new to strap-on play found the Silk Small unintimidating, while the Silk Medium provided a satisfying step up once comfort grew. As a beginner strap-on kit, it truly bridges the gap between nervous exploration and confident fun. We recommend it without hesitation for couples seeking a safe, high-quality entry point.

Is this harness compatible with other dildos?

Yes. The 1.5-inch O-ring holds any dildo with a flared base up to about 1.6 inches in diameter. You can easily swap in other Tantus silicone toys or similarly sized body-safe options.

Can two people wear the harness, or is it only for one user?

The adjustable straps fit hip circumferences from roughly 28 to 60 inches, so it can be shared between partners. Simply readjust the buckles.

How do I prevent the dildo from slipping during use?

Make sure the flared base is pulled all the way through the O-ring and sits flat against the harness fabric. Tighten the leg and waist straps evenly—this creates a stable platform that keeps the dildo securely in place.