Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Strap-On Harness Kit Onyx

Tantus’s Bend Over Intermediate kit is the next step for strap-on play. You get two smooth Silk dildos in medium and large, a vibrating velvet harness and a bullet vibe that sits in a pocket on the front, so the person wearing it feels the vibration too.

The Bend Over Intermediate dildos are 100% silicone from Tantus, which says they can be boiled or put in the dishwasher. The harness adjusts to fit up to 60-inch hips and goes in the washing machine. This listing is Onyx (black).

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• Couples who have tried a smaller strap-on and want a second, larger size in the same kit.
• Anyone who wants a harness that also vibrates for the wearer, as the Bend Over Intermediate harness does.
• People who like easy care: silicone you can boil or run through the dishwasher.
• If you are brand new to strap-ons, the Beginner kit or a smaller single dildo is the gentler start.

Live prices from our store. Prices updated November 3, 2026.

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What’s the difference between the Bend Over Beginner and Intermediate kits?

Both come with Tantus’s vibrating harness. The Bend Over Intermediate kit is the step up: it includes the Silk Medium (1 x 5.5 in) and the Silk Large (1.5 x 7 in), so you can move to the bigger size when you are ready.

Will the Bend Over Intermediate harness fit me?

Tantus says the harness is adjustable and fits up to 60-inch hips.

What powers the vibe?

A removable, waterproof bullet that runs on one 1.5 V N-type battery. It sits in a pocket on the front of the harness.

How do I clean everything?

Take the bullet out first. The harness is machine washable in a delicates bag with mild detergent, or hand wash it, then hang it to dry. The silicone dildos can be boiled, washed with mild soap and water or toy cleaner, or put in the dishwasher.

Can the dildos be used for anal play?

Tantus marks the kit as anal safe; both dildos have a flared base for the harness. Use plenty of lube and start with the Medium.

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