The Hold Me Tight Workbook: A Couple’s Guide For a Lifetime of Love is the practical companion to Dr. Sue Johnson’s million-copy bestseller, bringing evidence-based exercises and conversation prompts into a 224-page paperback that strengthens the emotional connection between partners.
What's Inside the Hold Me Tight Workbook
- Conversation Prompts: Guided questions to uncover hidden feelings and deepen intimacy.
- Healing Exercises: Step-by-step activities designed to repair attachment injuries and rebuild trust.
- Daily Connection Rituals: Simple practices that fit into busy schedules, keeping the relationship a priority.
- Journaling Pages: Space for each partner to reflect on insights and track progress.
- Real-World Examples: Anecdotes from Dr. Johnson’s couples therapy sessions that illustrate the exercises in action.
How to Use This Couple's Guide
Use the Hold Me Tight Workbook alongside the original bestseller or as a standalone journey. Each section is self-contained, allowing couples to move at their own pace. A typical evening: spend 15 minutes reading a prompt, then share your responses openly. The exercises encourage both verbal and written expression, making it easy to revisit earlier discoveries over the lifetime of your love.
Why the Hold Me Tight Workbook Works
This workbook translates Dr. Johnson’s Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) into everyday actions. By focusing on attachment needs and patterns, it helps couples move from conflict to closeness. With 224 pages of structured guidance, the Hold Me Tight Workbook turns abstract relationship concepts into concrete, measurable steps that foster a secure bond.
About Dr. Sue Johnson
Dr. Sue Johnson is the primary developer of Emotionally Focused Therapy and the author of Hold Me Tight, an international bestseller with over one million copies sold. Her decades of clinical research form the foundation of this workbook, giving every couple access to proven relationship science in a hands-on format.
Product Details
| Format: | Paperback |
| Pages: | 224 |
| Author: | Dr. Sue Johnson |
| Companion To: | Hold Me Tight (sold separately) |
STAFF PRODUCT REVIEW
We spent several evenings working through the first few chapters of the Hold Me Tight Workbook. The exercises struck a rare balance between simplicity and depth – they required no prior therapy knowledge yet prompted genuine, sometimes surprising, conversations. Our team found the “Recognizing Raw Spots” exercise particularly eye-opening. We recommend this workbook for any couple seeking practical tools to strengthen their emotional foundation, whether they are newly committed or have been together for decades.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Do I need the original Hold Me Tight book to use this workbook?
While the workbook is designed as a companion, many exercises include enough context to be completed on their own. For the full method and deeper understanding, we suggest using both together.
Q: How long does it take to complete the Hold Me Tight Workbook?
There are 224 pages, but you decide the pace. Most couples find that spending 15-30 minutes on one exercise per session three times a week leads to steady progress over a few months.
Q: Is the Hold Me Tight Workbook based on scientific research?
Absolutely. Every exercise is rooted in Emotionally Focused Therapy, a rigorously studied approach proven to improve relationship satisfaction.
Q: Can same-sex couples use this workbook?
Yes. The language and activities are inclusive and focus on attachment needs that apply to all loving partnerships.

