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Best Dildos of 2026: 5 Picks With a Size Chart
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The best dildos are the ones that match your size, the material you prefer and how you’ll use them: by hand, in a harness, on a suction cup or with a motor doing the work. We picked five we stock, from a 5-inch beginner curve to a 10-inch ULTRASKYN with a Vac-U-Lock suction cup, and checked every measurement against the maker.
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QUICK PICKS: FIVE DILDOS
Best for: Beginners, and vaginal or anal play with a gentle curve
Best for: Harness play with an average-size, semi-realistic shape
Best for: Squirting play, by hand or in a harness
Doc Johnson Signature Cocks Jax Slayher 10″
Best for: Experienced users who want a large, skin-like dildo
Best for: Hands-free thrusting with app control
THE SIZE CHART: CHOOSE BY INCHES FIRST
| Dildo | Insertable | Width | Type | Price |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Tantus Acute |
5 in | 1.25 in | Curved, 100% silicone | $35.70 |
| Tantus Mark O2 |
6.25 in long | 1.6 in shaft, 1.4 in head | Dual density silicone | $79.89 |
| Tantus POP Squirting Dildo |
6.5 in | 1.5 in | Silicone, squirts on demand | From $101.15 |
| Doc Johnson Signature Cocks Jax Slayher 10″ |
9 in | 2 in (6 in around) | Dual density ULTRASKYN | $99.10 |
| Lovense Gravity |
— (about 10.2 in overall) | 4.56 in girth | Silicone, thrusts and vibrates | $149.00 |
Live prices from our store. Prices updated October 29, 2026.
Measurements from Tantus, Doc Johnson and Lovense. Lovense lists girth and overall length for the Gravity, not insertable length.
THE BEST DILDOS, ONE BY ONE
Best for: Beginners, and vaginal or anal play with a gentle curve
Tantus shaped the Acute with a gentle angle for vaginal and anal play and says it suits beginners through to advanced users. It’s the slimmest and lowest-priced pick here, and Tantus silicone can go in boiling water or the dishwasher.
Best for: Harness play with an average-size, semi-realistic shape
Mark is Tantus’s average-size, harness-compatible dildo. Its dual density silicone has a soft outer layer over a denser core, and veins on the shaft. The thicker base adds stability in a harness.
Best for: Squirting play, by hand or in a harness
A handheld syringe releases the liquid of your choice through a tube and tip inside the POP, by hand or in a harness. The head is smooth and the shaft has a swirl.
Doc Johnson Signature Cocks Jax Slayher 10″
Best for: Experienced users who want a large, skin-like dildo
Molded from Jax Slayher, this is Doc Johnson’s dual density ULTRASKYN, made to feel like skin and warm to body temperature. The Vac-U-Lock suction cup comes off, so it also fits Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Lock harnesses.
Best for: Hands-free thrusting with app control
Lovense’s Gravity thrusts and vibrates on its own, controlled from the Lovense Remote app with unlimited patterns, music sync and sound activation. Its suction cup sticks to smooth surfaces for hands-free use. Our thrusting dildo guide compares it with other thrusting toys.
MATERIALS AND LUBE
| Material | What to know | Lube |
|---|---|---|
| 100% silicone (Tantus) | Firm or dual density; boilable and dishwasher-safe per Tantus | Water-based |
| ULTRASKYN (Doc Johnson) | Dual density, skin-like, warms with use | Water-based (Doc Johnson’s instruction) |
| Silicone with a motor (Lovense) | Rechargeable; rinse only as far as its water resistance allows | Water-based |
Water-based lube is the one choice that suits every dildo in this guide. Our water-based vs. silicone lube guide explains the difference.
HARNESS, SUCTION CUP OR HAND
- Harness: look for a flared base. The Tantus Mark O2 and Tantus POP Squirting Dildo are harness-compatible, and our strap-on and strapless range has harness kits.
- Suction cup: the Doc Johnson Signature Cocks Jax Slayher 10″ and Lovense Gravity stick to smooth surfaces such as tile or glass.
- By hand: any of them, and the Tantus Acute‘s curve makes it easy to angle.
- Anal play: always use a flared base, and read our guide to choosing an anal toy.
CARE AND STORAGE
Wash every dildo before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, and let it dry. Tantus silicone can also be boiled or washed in the dishwasher. With a removable Vac-U-Lock cup, Doc Johnson suggests dusting the port with Vac-U-Powder or cornstarch before refitting the cup. Store toys apart, out of direct sunlight.
DILDO FAQ
What size dildo should I start with?
Start smaller than you think. Around 5 inches insertable and 1.25 inches across, like the Tantus Acute, is a comfortable first size for many people. You can always size up, and the size chart above makes comparing easy.
Is silicone or ULTRASKYN better?
They feel different. Tantus’s 100% silicone is firm or dual density, and Tantus says it can be boiled or put in the dishwasher. Doc Johnson’s ULTRASKYN is dual density, made to feel like skin and warm with use, and Doc Johnson says to use it with water-based lube.
Can I use a dildo with a harness?
Yes, if it has a flared base. Tantus makes the Mark O2 and the POP harness-compatible, and the Jax Slayher fits Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Lock harnesses through its removable suction cup.
What lube should I use with a dildo?
Water-based lube works with every material in this guide. Doc Johnson specifies water-based lube for ULTRASKYN. Our lube guide explains when silicone lube is and isn’t a good idea.
Can a dildo be used anally?
Only if it has a flared base that stops it going too far. The Tantus Acute is made for vaginal and anal play. Our guide to choosing an anal toy covers what to look for.
How do I clean a dildo?
Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, then dry it. Tantus silicone toys can also be boiled or washed in the dishwasher. Rechargeable toys like the Gravity should only be rinsed to the level their water resistance allows.
For more shapes and sizes, browse our silicone dildos, realistic dildos and double dongs, or see every dildo for sale.
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