Couples & Intimacy
Top Couple Sex Toys: 6 Picks by What You Want Together
Aug
By Samantha T. · Picks are chosen by use, with each product’s specs from its maker. Nothing here is based on our own use.
The best couple sex toys aren’t the most powerful ones; they’re the ones you both want to use. Start from what you want more of in bed, then pick the toy, not the other way round. Below are six common goals and one well-documented couple sex toy for each, all in stock with live prices.
Start with the goal, not the gadget
| What you want | Start with |
|---|---|
| If you want hands-free during sex | We-Vibe Sync Go |
| If one partner wants to hand over control | Lovense Lush 4 |
| If you want something for both of you during sex | We-Vibe Pivot 2 |
| If you want the simplest place to start | Magic Wand Mini |
| If you want to explore without buying gear first | Bondage Seductions game |
| If you want to switch roles | Tantus Sport Kit |
Best for: Couples who want shared vibration without holding anything
A lightweight wearable you both feel during sex. We-Vibe lists 10 intensity levels, an app with long-distance control, IPX7, 90 minutes of use and a travel case.
Best for: Teasing from across the room, or from another city
A wearable egg the other partner runs from the Lovense Remote app. Lovense lists up to 350 minutes per charge, a maximum of 36 dB and IPX7.
We-Vibe Pivot 2
Best for: Adding vibration to sex for both partners
A stretchy vibrating ring worn by the partner with a penis, so both feel it. We-Vibe lists app control, IPX7 and up to 2 hours per charge.
Best for: Foreplay, oral or hand play, or massage
The simplest of the couple sex toys here, a compact version of the classic wand: three speeds, up to 2.5 hours per charge and 9.7 oz, with simple buttons and nothing to pair.
Bondage Seductions game
Best for: Trying light bondage as a game
Kheper Games’ kit of 36 cards, 2 silky ties, 2 dice, a blindfold and a rubber whip. Play the game, or draw one card for the night.
Best for: A first strap-on for G-spot or prostate play
A velvet harness, a smooth 100% silicone dildo (1.25 in wide, 5.5 in insertable) and a bullet that sits in the harness so the wearer feels it too.
Specs from We-Vibe, Lovense, Magic Wand, Kheper Games and Tantus. November 3, 2026
Talk first, buy second
Couple sex toys work best when you have both had a say before anything arrives.
- Each of you names one thing you are curious about and one hard no.
- Decide who controls the toy, and agree on a word that means stop.
- Check the fit: insertable length, ring size or harness size before you buy.
- Start on the lowest setting the first time; you can always go up.
Sharing toys safely
- Wash couple sex toys before and after use, and between partners, or use a fresh condom on them.
- Never go from anal to vaginal use without washing.
- Water-based lube is the safe choice for silicone toys.
- Charge app toys before a date; read our toy cleaning guide for care.
Want more choice of couple sex toys? Compare app toys in our remote control vibrator guide, rings in our cock ring guide, or browse all vibrators.
Couple toy questions
What are the best couple sex toys for beginners?
Something simple that adds to what you already do: a small wand or a vibrating ring during sex. Leave app toys and strap-ons until you know what you both like.
Are couple sex toys only for intercourse?
No. A wand during oral or hand play, a game, or a toy one partner controls from across the room all count.
Can couple sex toys work long distance?
Yes. App toys like the Lovense Lush 4 and We-Vibe Sync Go let a partner control them over the internet through the brand’s app.
How do we share couple sex toys hygienically?
Clean the toy between partners and between body areas, or use a condom on it. Never move a toy from anal to vaginal use without washing it.
How do we bring it up without awkwardness?
Shop together, or each pick one thing you are curious about and talk it through. A surprise purchase can feel like pressure.
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